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Printed In Yated, Sivan 5762 - May 2002 in "Health Bits" section
It�s no secret� Keeping a secret
is hard! Although living with diabetes means leading a normal,
sometimes even above-average life, many children with diabetes long
for someone who can share and understand their condition. Knowing
that their peers cannot relate to this unique aspect of their lives,
youngsters sometimes feel self-conscious and �different�,
imagining that they are the only ones in the world checking blood
sugars and counting carbohydrates.
That�s why the Friends With
Diabetes boys� Shabbos at the beginning of May was such a grand
success. The participants, teenaged boys from all over New York and
surrounding states, converged in Monsey, NY, for an exciting and
uplifting program of speakers and activities. But perhaps even more
important than the invaluable inspiration and education they
absorbed, was the priceless feeling of empathy and friendship that
served as a bond between them. The day-to-day details of dealing
with diabetes were discussed openly and informally throughout the
Shabbos. The delicious feeling of being understood warmed the boys.
FWD places a strong emphasis on
protecting the privacy and confidentiality of its members. At the
same time, while carefully bearing these wishes in mind, it aims to
provide opportunity for interaction and support among the diabetics
themselves. In addition to mingling and delighting with diabetic
boys their own age, those in attendance gained immensely from
meeting adults with diabetes. These positive role models
reinforced the belief that diabetes would not deprive anyone of
building a beautiful family and succeeding in life.
There was much more to be gained
from that Shabbos. One of the major goals of FWD is to educate its
members on incorporating good diabetes practices with a Yiddishe
lifestyle. This was achieved by speeches, explanation and clear
demonstrations. Rabbi Holtzer of Monsey, NY, treated the boys to a
masterful halachic oration. Also featured at the Shabbos was
renowned educator, Rabbi Yaakov Horowitz.
A highlight of the Shabbos was the
powerful speech delivered by Rabbi Weismandl, in which he stated
clearly that diabetes is nothing to be ashamed of and nothing to
hide. He pointed out that secrecy, which can ch�v lead to neglect
in diabetes control, is actually the only thing a person need be
embarrassed of. For some children, keeping diabetes a secret
may be harder than dealing with the condition itself! The
Rabbi also praised all those in attendance who had chosen not to be
ashamed of diabetes, but rather to come join this inspirational
gathering that would have a positive influence on the rest of their
lives.
This Shabbos is only a part of
FWD�s ongoing effort to educate, unite, and support youngsters
with diabetes, literally from throughout the world! FWD hosts these
inspirational and successful Shabbosim on a steady, ongoing basis,
for both girls and boys separately. Many of the participants have
vouched that a Shabbos with Friends With Diabetes has completely
changed their perspective, their entire life. It�s good to know,
at least, that these children now have one less secret to keep.
FWD is continuing to fill a vital
need in the Jewish community. Our future plans iy�h, also include
a support group for women dealing with type 2 diabetes. If you are
interested in joining, or know someone who may benefit, don�t
hesitate to pass along the secret!
Contact Friends With Diabetes at
(845) 352-7532.
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